A couple of weeks ago, I went to get a biopsy on a bump that I have under my right ear. The next day I got the diagnosis. I have a pleomorphic adenoma, which is a benign tumor. Although benign, I have to have it surgically removed because it will continue to grow and can turn malignant over time.

Removal: They'll cut an incision around my ear. It will go into my hairline so it won't leave a very visible scar. My ear will be numb forever, but I will be able to hear out of it, etc. They will remove the tumor, take fat from my stomach, insert the fat where the tumor used to be (so I don't have a big indention) and then stitch me back up. The tumor is in my parotid gland so they will have to remove part or all of it, depending on the size and growth of the tumor. The facial nerve runs through the parotid gland so the surgery is very long and delicate because if it is severed, the right side of my face will be paralyzed. The whole surgery takes about 4 to 5 hours and then they will keep me overnight in the hospital to allow drainage from the area.
Sounds fun, huh. I'm very grateful it's nothing worse, but I still have my days. I just want to look back at everything as the past. I can't have the surgery until after the baby is born so I get to wait and think about it.